我相信·大部分的人都听过这句话·
就是'他/她也和你一样'
可能是朋友对你说的·
可能是家人对你说的·
可能是情人对你说的·
不管对你说这句话的人是以上的哪一位都好·
重点是他们口中的他/她和你是什么关系·
如果他/她是一个不相干的人,那无伤大雅·
你们被别人比较,在比较中不相上下,无所谓·
如果他/她是你情人的前女友/男友,心里一定很不是滋味吧·
那一句'他/她也和你一样',听得很刺耳吧·
意思是:就没什么特别,都一样!
你原以为你在他/她的心里是独一无二的·
事实告诉你:是你想太多·
举个例你和他/她吵架了·你会怎样反应?
以我的个性,我会选择默,我不是认同,更不是逃避.只是觉得当下双方都不够理智,会说出一些难听的话,所以亦然,沉默是我的选择.
好啦!雨过天晴啦!再来解决问题.
有一次,我问了:以前,当你们吵架了,她都怎么反应的呢?
你说:她也和你一样,都不说话.
在读这篇部落格的你 你 你,知道我要表达的感受了吗?
那就留个言吧...
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Friday, September 25, 2009
it is a terrible world!
am i so so weak?
am i so so stupid?
am i so so easy to get bully?
am i .....?
i couldn't even protect myself in certain situation.
especially when i'm alone with G.
what the hell's going on?!?!?
why i should been treat like this?
you n you n you also knew tht i'm just so so terrifiying when i was alone with G.
but just let it happen so often!
it's so ridiculous!
i swear~!
even again~
i'll leave here, while everything is ready to encourage me to do so!
someone told me: enough is enough!!!
it's real!
i'll be so lovely n polite...
no wry!!!!
am i so so stupid?
am i so so easy to get bully?
am i .....?
i couldn't even protect myself in certain situation.
especially when i'm alone with G.
what the hell's going on?!?!?
why i should been treat like this?
you n you n you also knew tht i'm just so so terrifiying when i was alone with G.
but just let it happen so often!
it's so ridiculous!
i swear~!
even again~
i'll leave here, while everything is ready to encourage me to do so!
someone told me: enough is enough!!!
it's real!
i'll be so lovely n polite...
no wry!!!!
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
如果
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
不睡
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Monday, August 31, 2009
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Subscribe to:
Comments (Atom)
.jpg)





.jpg)